It’s that time of the year - the holidays. It is the time when you are supposed to take a break from your daily life, probably go for a mini-trip to the mountains or the beach, buy a Christmas tree, decorate it with stars, add some fairy lights, wear those Santa caps, go for a delicious brunch before heading out for a long walk in the city followed by a mesmerising dinner and finally end the day by watching a movie tugged under that cosy and warm blanket wearing oversized hoodies.
Coincidentally, 2 friends of mine said something similar yesterday :). One remarked how his ongoing solo travel didn't feel as much fun anymore. The other one replied affirmatively how solo trips feel fun and accelerate self discovery when one is figuring themselves out; that how once a lot of figuring out has been done already, 'it's time to live it up, go to bagpacker hostels, meet more people'. Am glad you've done the hard work of figuring things out. Something to celebrate indeed :). Hope you feel heard.
Thank you so much for sharing this with me, Bhairevi. You've always made me feel heard whenever I've shared anything with you and this time is no different! :)
I can relate with the fact that solo travelling might not seem fun once the "figuring things out" part has been done. Though that process seems like an ongoing one with a best case scenario of providing temporary answers that one might have to revisit on a periodic basis.
I completely feel you bhai, each and every word, we know it will eventually all be exactly as we want it to be but sometimes the temporary want gets the better of us, hand in there buddy! Will be worth the wait!
Really glad that you find yourself in the right space to have a partner :). Wish you the best henceforth, including all the good luck you need. :).
Coincidentally, 2 friends of mine said something similar yesterday :). One remarked how his ongoing solo travel didn't feel as much fun anymore. The other one replied affirmatively how solo trips feel fun and accelerate self discovery when one is figuring themselves out; that how once a lot of figuring out has been done already, 'it's time to live it up, go to bagpacker hostels, meet more people'. Am glad you've done the hard work of figuring things out. Something to celebrate indeed :). Hope you feel heard.
Thank you so much for sharing this with me, Bhairevi. You've always made me feel heard whenever I've shared anything with you and this time is no different! :)
I can relate with the fact that solo travelling might not seem fun once the "figuring things out" part has been done. Though that process seems like an ongoing one with a best case scenario of providing temporary answers that one might have to revisit on a periodic basis.
Thank you for acknowledging my feelings! :)
I completely feel you bhai, each and every word, we know it will eventually all be exactly as we want it to be but sometimes the temporary want gets the better of us, hand in there buddy! Will be worth the wait!
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